Our WM Journey by Betty Ann and Gregg Morton

This story was shared in the September 2025 issue of IWMF’s Wellness Newsletter: https://conta.cc/45Rjxtj To sign up for monthly Wellness Newsletters, click here.

Betty Ann: Since I was diagnosed back in 2001, we’ve had a long journey with WM, with many ups and downs. My initial diagnosis resulted from unusual findings on a lab test. I thought I was going to die in the very near future; my world felt as if it had collapsed.

My husband Gregg came with me to all of my appointments, helped make sure that our everyday life stayed stable, and gave me time and space to figure things out. With the exception of a few difficult periods health-wise, the support that Gregg has provided for me has mainly been emotional. That, and excellent health insurance!

Gregg: When Betty Ann learned that she had some form of cancer, it hit me hard. I remember that we went to a group meeting at church, where Betty Ann shared the news. It was helpful to have people’s prayers and support. But, of course, this was a journey we’d have to take mainly on our own.

From the beginning, I went with Betty Ann to her doctor’s appointments. I wanted to show my support for her, and this was a way that I thought could make a difference.

And when she had infusions, I went with her to keep her company. I remember that she had one infusion right before Christmas, and she was able to get permission from the facility for me to bring my guitar and sing for her. Of course, others in the room could hear as well.

Betty Ann: About nine years ago, a series of treatments resulted in low immunity and hospitalization for pneumonia. Gregg showed up at the hospital to sing a favorite folk song that I requested. Once I returned home, weak and without an appetite, my husband helped me regain strength. He cooked tasty meals and didn’t criticize me for eating only tiny portions. Again he gave me time and acceptance.

Gregg: Betty Ann took charge of her medications and of tracking her numbers. I never had a lot of understanding of the details, and I didn’t need to, because she was her own champion. She would do research into optional treatments and take ideas and questions to her doctor.

Three years ago, the Ed Forum was located in St. Louis. Since we live outside Chicago, that was an easy drive and we decided to go. We enjoyed it so much that we have gone to the next two – in Washington State and in Florida. As long as we can go, we are likely to do so.

Betty Ann: Gregg has been my partner through WM, coming to support group meetings and more recently to the IWMF Ed Forums, providing support with his presence.

Having a caregiver is a valuable gift for a WM patient, one that changes over time and circumstances. I feel extremely fortunate to have Gregg with me, and caring for me, through these WM years.

Betty Ann and Gregg Morton live outside Chicago, Illinois, and are active members of the local WM support group.

Betty Ann is a regular contributor to the IWMF publication The Torch, as well as a helpful administrator in the private WM Facebook group. She has participated in IWMF wellness classes since May 2021.

Gregg graciously brings his guitar to the Ed Forum meetings, and shares music at the Support Group Leader dinners, collaborating with others to lead singalongs. We are very grateful to have them in our community!