Being diagnosed with Waldenstrom’s macroglobulinemia (WM), an incurable but slow-growing, treatable, rare lymphoma, may disrupt your sense of normalcy and cause stress for both you and your loved ones. Upon receiving the diagnosis, many questions often surface, such as:
- Why me?
- How did this happen?
- How long will I live?
- How will my life, work, relationships change?
- Will I be around to see my children grow up?
Experiencing many different feelings – even all at once – is an expected part of having cancer. People often face an array of emotions as they cycle through the adjustment process.
If no significant WM symptoms are present upon diagnosis, your physician may suggest a period of active monitoring called “watch and wait.” During this time, your disease status is carefully monitored so that treatment begins at the right time, when and if it’s needed. Some people find this period unsettling due to the lack of action and refer to it as “watch and worry.” Others feel a sense of relief being free from the demands of treatment and view it more welcomingly as “watch and live.” There are many ways you can take control during this time to improve your physical fitness, emotional health, and overall well-being.
When starting treatment, many emotions may arise and continue even after it ends. Finding the right kind of support that best fits your personal needs is key. Joining a support group, calling a friend or family member, reaching out to a spiritual or community leader, or seeking professional help from a licensed therapist can be important coping strategies. The IWMF offers many support resources, including:
- 1:1 phone calls/emails
- Support groups
- Wellness programs
- Online discussion groups
You will find links below, along with helpful resources from other organizations that have been vetted by the IWMF. With the IWMF, you are never alone!
Adjusting to a WM Diagnosis
- The National Cancer Institute, “Emotions and Cancer”.
- IWMF Stories of Hope.
- IWMF Patient Perspective Video Series (YouTube)
- GRYT Health, “How Are You Really? A Mental Health Series – Frankly Speaking About Cancer: Why Can’t I Stay Positive?”
Coping with Watch & Wait Stage
- The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, “Watch and Wait“
- The Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center, “The Cancer Waiting Game: When the Recommended Treatment is Nothing”
Coping with Treatment and Beyond
- CancerCare, “Coping with Sadness Throughout and after Treatment”
- The Leonard P. Zakim Center for Integrative Therapies and Healthy Living
- IWMF Torch article by Wanda Huskins (October 2012, page 12), “Psychological and Social Needs of Cancer Patients: Scope of the Problem”
- IWMF Torch article (January 2023, page 3), “Depression – A Very Treatable Illness”, by Dr. Marshall Lewis
- Managing Stress Booklet from The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society
Coping with Relapse and Recurrence
- CancerCare, “Coping with the Fear of Recurrence”
- CancerCare workshop recording, “Fear of Recurrence and Late Effects: Living with Uncertainty”
Gaining Support
- IWMF Support Groups & International Affiliates
- IWMF LIFELINE Directory
- IWMF Online Discussion Forums:
- Psychology Today
- Aging Life Care Managers
- The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society Information Specialists with language interpreters for 350 different languages
- CancerCare has professional oncology social workers on staff to provide free emotional and practical support for people with cancer, caregivers, loved ones and the bereaved. https://cancercare.org/services
- Cancer Support Community has a helpline with a range of support services with over-the-phone translation support in over 200 languages: https://www.cancersupportcommunity.org/cancer-support-helpline
- NPR, “A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding a Therapist“
- WebMD, “How to Find a Therapist that Takes Insurance”
Self-Care
- Chair Yoga for WM YouTube Playlist
- Relaxing Meditation Practices- Sound Healing and Yoga Nidra for WM YouTube Playlist
- Cardio Flow and Strength Training YouTube Playlist
- T’ai Chi and Qi Gong – YouTube Playlist
- The IWMF Torch article (April 2013, Page 18), “A Self-Care Approach to Living Well with Waldenstrom Macroglobulinemia” by Wanda Huskins
- The Leonard P. Zakim Center for Integrative Medicine and Healthy Living has a Sleep & Relaxation Toolkit video series
- CancerCare audio recording, “Mind Body Techniques to Cope with the Stresses of Cancer”
Gaining Empowerment
- The Patient Empowerment Network Guides
- The IWMF Ed Forum 2023 video, “Patient-Doctor Shared Decision Making” with Dr. Shayna Sarosiek:
- The Bloodline, with Leukemia & Lymphoma Society Podcast – “Patient-Doctor Perspectives: Shared Decision-Making”
- IWMF Directory of WM Physicians
- “Living in the And”: 14 minute Ted Talk by Julie Larson, LCSW (2021)
- Educate and Empower Webinars -YouTube Playlist